Stockton- Fear is one of the many things that make us human, but it can also be detrimental to our humanity. It serves as a survival mechanism, keeping us alert and cautious, yet it also has the power to consume our thoughts, limit our potential, and even drive us apart. Fear can prevent us from truly living, from embracing new experiences, and from pursuing what makes us happy. As humans, we often fear what we do not know or understand, a pattern that has echoed throughout history. Without fear, there might not have been so many wars, so much division, or so many tears shed. If we recognize that our own minds are responsible for creating many of our fears, why do we continue to listen to them so intently?
Fear is universal—everyone has their own anxieties, and fear will always be a part of life. It is woven into our very existence. However, we must not allow it to control us, especially during high school, a pivotal time in our lives. In these four years, we have the opportunity to make an impact, discover who we are, and build the foundation for our future. It is often said that high school passes in the blink of an eye—one moment, you are a nervous freshman wandering into the wrong classroom, and the next, you are wearing a cap and gown, preparing to step into adulthood. To truly make an impact during high school, we must be willing to let go of some of our fears.
Yes, stepping out of our comfort zones can be intimidating, and challenges will arise. There will be moments of discomfort and stress, but overcoming these obstacles will ultimately make us stronger. The key is to take chances—whether that means joining a club, trying out for a sport, or simply speaking up in class. Lincoln High School offers countless clubs catering to a wide range of interests, and if none align with your passions, you have the power to create one. Taking on such challenges not only allows you to express yourself but also helps you find like-minded individuals who share your interests. There will always be at least one other person on campus who connects with your ideas. High school is not the time to be held back by fear because these moments, and the people you share them with, will never come again.
Another aspect of high school that often induces fear is relationships—both friendships and romantic connections. However, as long as you remain true to yourself, there is nothing to fear. This is a time of change, and people will come and go from your life, sometimes for reasons you may never fully understand. That is okay; it is simply part of life. Relationships, whether long-lasting or fleeting, are essential in helping us navigate the challenges of high school. Never be afraid to say hello to someone new or to invite someone to sit with you at lunch. More often than not, others feel the same hesitation but are simply waiting for someone to take the first step. A single conversation can shift the energy of an entire room and lead to meaningful connections.
Additionally, many students find interacting with adults, particularly teachers, to be intimidating. However, forming positive relationships with them can be incredibly beneficial. While it may seem daunting at first, it is important to remember that they were once in your shoes. By building strong connections with your teachers, you not only make your high school experience more enriching but also set yourself up for future success. When senior year arrives and you need letters of recommendation, those relationships will make the process much less nerve-wracking. More importantly, teachers and other adults in your life can offer valuable guidance, provide perspectives you may not have considered, and help you navigate decisions about your future. They can connect you with job opportunities, internships, and resources that will set you on the path to success.
Walking onto a high school campus can be daunting, as fear often lingers in the unknown. However, we must remind ourselves that fear only holds power over us if we allow it to. At its core, high school is just a place of learning, grades are just numbers, and every student is figuring things out just as you are. Everyone is working toward their own goals, and while each person’s journey is different, these differences should not be feared but embraced.
Therefore, as you continue your high school journey, live it to the fullest. Take risks, step out of your comfort zone, and make the most of these four years before it is your turn to walk across the graduation stage. Participate in clubs and sports, build relationships, and work hard—because in the end, the comeback is always stronger than the setback.
